How to Make Linen Softer (And Why It Gets Better With Age)

Some of the best things in life get better with age. A favourite jumper, a classic novel, a well-loved leather armchair… they all develop a unique character and comfort that simply can’t be bought off the shelf. And we’re completely and utterly convinced that 100% linen bedding belongs on that list.

One of the questions we get asked all the time is, “Do linen sheets get softer over time?” We’re always so excited to answer with a massive, resounding yes. Unlike some fabrics that can feel their best on day one and fade over time, our linen bedding is on a completely different journey. It’s a wonderful investment that evolves, becoming even softer and more comfortable the more you use, wash, and love it.

So, let's discover more about this incredible fabric and the brilliant benefits of sleeping in linen.

Ever wondered why your linen gets so lovely and soft? The secret lies in the humble flax plant from which it’s made. Linen is created from the long, strong fibres inside the plant's stalk. When your bedding is brand new, these fibres are firm and crisp.

With every wash and every night you snuggle up in bed, the water and gentle movement work their magic. The fibres relax, and the pectin that binds them together gently breaks down. This allows the weave to become softer, more flexible, and more supple without compromising the fabric’s incredible strength.

Think of it like your favourite denim jeans, they’re a bit stiff at first, but over time, they soften and shape to you perfectly. That’s exactly what your linen bedding is doing.

That ever-improving softness is just one of the many benefits of sleeping on linen sheets. It’s a true wonder-fabric that works hard to keep you comfortable and stylish all year round.

Firstly, it’s a brilliant natural temperature regulator. The hollow flax fibres make linen wonderfully breathable, helping to keep you cool on those warm summer nights and acting as a natural insulator to keep you snug when the weather turns chilly.

Beyond comfort, linen is also incredibly durable. Flax is one of the strongest natural fibres in the world, which means your linen bedding is built to last for years and years, making it a truly worthwhile investment. This durability is matched by its kindness to skin, as linen is naturally hypoallergenic, and its moisture-wicking properties help keep your bed fresh.

Of course, we also absolutely adore its effortless style; that relaxed, perfectly imperfect look adds a layer of natural texture and sophistication to any bedroom. 

If you're still deciding on the right fabric for your sleep personality, our Cotton or Linen Bedding Guide might help.

So, you’re looking for tips on how to make linen softer? The fantastic news is that the best method is also the simplest: just use and wash it. The more you love your linen, the softer it will get.

However, if you want to speed up the snuggability, you can do a few simple things to help the process along:

• Wash carefully: A gentle, cool wash (around 40 degrees) is perfect for linen. There’s no need for high temperatures.

• Give it room: Don’t overload your washing machine. Give your sheets plenty of room to move around in the water, which helps them soften and get beautifully clean.

• Tumble dry on low: A gentle tumble dry on a low heat can work wonders for softening the fibres. We love to use wool dryer balls as a brilliant, chemical-free alternative to fabric softener.

• Skip the fabric softener: It might seem counterintuitive, but conventional fabric softeners can actually coat the natural fibres of linen, hindering its ability to soften on its own.

For all the information you need to care for your new favourite linen bedding, check out our full linen bedding care guide.

How Long Does It Take for Linen to Soften?

We know it can be hard to wait. While our laundered linen feels wonderfully inviting straight out of the packaging, you will usually start to notice a real difference in softness after about three to five washes. From there, it is a continuous, magical journey, it will simply keep getting softer and drapier with every passing year.

Why You Should Skip the Ironing Board

It might be tempting to give your fresh new sheets a quick press, but ironing can actually temporarily flatten and stiffen the flax fibres. If you want maximum softness and that gorgeous, relaxed drape, we highly recommend stepping away from the ironing board entirely. Letting your linen air-dry naturally is the absolute best way to achieve that buttery-soft, tactile aesthetic.

Start Your Linen Love Story

Choosing linen is choosing bedding that grows with you. It’s a little bit of luxury that doesn’t fade but flourishes over time, becoming a soft and familiar part of your home.

Ready to start your linen love story? Have a peek at our full collection of beautiful 100% Linen Bedding today.

Still not sure? Read our guide: Why choose linen bedding